In our quest to understand deep doctrine, the celestial universe, and the eternities, sometimes we overlook the simple things that are just as powerful and soul-shaping. Take, for instance, these four phrases Elder Gerrit W. Gong shared on Facebook:
"In each of our lives things happen that make us stop and consider what is most important. A heart attack, a near drowning, a suicide—the sudden jolt of death, injury, or major changes make us seek at-one-ment. At these tender moments, the four things that matter most find expression as 'thank you,' 'I love you,' 'please forgive me,' and 'I forgive you' (see Ira Byock, The Four Things That Matter Most [2004], 3).
"Each of these phrases is an echo of the Atonement. In each we feel our Savior’s love for us as we extend His love and forgiveness to others. Each eases pain, offers hope and comfort, and reconciles injustices and hurts that come from living in a world of sticks and stones.
"And we don’t have to wait for death or trauma. The Savior’s Atonement can infuse our role relationships, experiences, and knowledge right now. Our lives become richer, more peaceful, and more whole as we say with all our hearts 'thank you,' 'I love you,' 'please forgive me,' and 'I forgive you.'"